How to Get Clear on What You Want and Actually Manifest It

Reprogram Your Mind, Transform Your Life

Hey beautiful soul,

Ever feel like you’re floating through life, unsure of where you’re headed or how to get there?

Today, we’re diving deep into the art of goal setting NLP style.

This isn’t your average “write it down and hope” kind of post.

We’re talking about how to activate your subconscious mind to guide you straight toward the life you actually want.

Let’s have some fun. Let’s get clear. Let’s manifest.

Why Goal Setting Matters

If you want to create a life you love, you need to know what you want.
Not just vaguely. Not just “more money” or “a better relationship.”
You need a crystal-clear vision. You need to know:

• Your desired emotional state
• Your daily vibration
• Your specific outcome

Because your subconscious mind is always listening. And if you don’t give it a clear destination, it’ll take you anywhere (or nowhere).

The Danger of Drifting

Let’s talk about drifting.

You’re born into a world with a script already written for you:
Go to school. Get the job. Climb the ladder. Buy this. Wear that.

And without realizing it, you start following that script.

Not because it feels right, but because it’s what everyone else is doing.

You’re not steering your own ship… you’re just floating.

And then one day, you wake up and realize you’re miles away from what you actually want.

You can’t even see it anymore.

It’s like trying to remember a dream after your morning coffee…fuzzy, gone.

That’s why I shared the Empowerment Formula in the last blog with a visualization to help you reconnect with what you truly want.

Because once you see it clearly everything changes.

States vs. Outcomes

Let’s break down the difference between emotional states and tangible outcomes.

And why you need both.

feeling States

Many people set goals like:

“I want to feel happy.”
“I want to feel peaceful.”

These are beautiful intentions, and a key ingredient to this goal setting recipe.

But they’re not outcomes.

Why?

Because states like joy, peace, confidence can be accessed right now.

With NLP tools like anchoring, you can feel any state instantly.

🧘‍♀️Try This:

Close your eyes.
Think of a time you felt truly happy; soul lit up kind of happy.

What did you see? Hear? Feel?

Let that memory wash over you.

That’s a state. And you can anchor it anytime.

But here’s the catch: Your subconscious mind takes the path of least resistance to get you to your goal.

And so, if your goal is just “I want to be happy,” your subconscious might check that box the moment you smile at a puppy or find a dime on the sidewalk. Boom, goal achieved.

But did it move your life forward?

specific Outcomes:

An outcome is specific. It’s measurable. It’s something your subconscious can actually work toward.

Example: “I have a job doing what I love. I work 15 hours a week, make $200K per year, work from home, and serve soul-driven, ambitious women.”

See the difference?

That’s a goal your subconscious can grab onto.

When we task the subconscious mind with a specific goal like this it starts filtering your environment, guiding your decisions, and magnetizing opportunities that match that exact vision.

Setting Specific Goals in Money, Relationships & Health

Grab your journal; this is where clarity becomes power.

💸 Money Goals

Instead of “I want more money,” ask:

• How much exactly?
• By when?
• Through what means?

💞 Relationship Goals

Instead of “I want a relationship,” ask:

• What kind of partner?
• Entrepreneur or 9–5?
• Adventurous or grounded?
• What values do they hold?

🧘‍♀️ Health Goals

Instead of “I want to be healthier,” ask:

• What weight do you want to reach?
• How do you want your body to feel?
• What does your ideal health routine include?

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What Makes a Good OUTCOME?

Element	Why It Matters
🎯 Specific	Creates a crystal-clear picture
🕒 Time-bound	Builds urgency and momentum
📏 Measurable	Lets you know when you’ve achieved it
💖 Self-driven	Ensures it’s YOUR goal and not someone else’s script

The Manifestation Bridge: Why You Need Both

Okay, let’s take this deeper, because this is where the magic really happens.

You need:

• The emotional state (your vibration)
• The clear outcome (your destination)

Here’s what a lot of people do:

“When I have more money, then I’ll feel abundant.”
“When I get more clients, then I’ll feel successful.”

But that’s backwards.

You can’t attract from a state of lack.

The universe responds to your vibration not your wish list.

So first, anchor into the state you want (joy, abundance, confidence) and feel it now.

When you do, the universe starts rearranging itself to match your vibration.
You become magnetic to the outcome you desire.

But don’t stop there.

Floating in a good feeling state without a clear goal means you feel great, but you lack direction.

Outcomes give you purpose.

They give your subconscious a map.

And alignment + clarity: real fulfillment.

Final Thoughts

Thank you for reading, love.

If this resonated, drop a comment below with one goal you’re ready to get clear on.

And let’s make it real together.

✨ And if you’re ready to take this deeper, book a free Vision & Clarity Session with me.

Let’s reprogram your subconscious and manifest the life you were born to live.